To our way of thinking, your personal and sexual happiness are central to you finding the confidence to enjoy life to the full. You're an individual and that makes you a very complex person with your own unique sexuality. So, if you're a woman or a man who's not satisfied with the way you're treated by your partner in bed, then you're not going to be very content with the rest of your life - and that's no way to be if you're hoping to find fulfilment.

Here, along with other sources, we have brought together VR-Girl (who is well known for her outspoken and sometimes outrageous views, particularly on men whose female sexual partners don't get the satisfaction they desire) and The Sex Prof, our own Fenton J Parks.